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There Goes the Neighborhood

When your only debt is your mortgage is it normal to question selling on a daily or weekly basis? It used to be such a quiet neighborhood.  Mr. Cabbage and I are now greeted every single time we leave or arrive home – by our townhouse’s neighborhood watch made up of four large, ridiculously LOUD and obnoxious dogs who all live next door.  They awaken us every weekday and weekend morning and we used to LOVE sleeping in.  The dog’s owners leave their bags of poop in their front yard next to their stoop at times for the entire week until trash day.  It looks so classy.  The same lovely neighbors own both a piano and a drum set and some sort of speaker system that literally shakes our walls occasionally like an earthquake or a helicopter.   I know that if we did choose to sell our townhouse, that this neighbor would dissuede buyers.  Do people ask neighbors to clean up their mess and quiet their animals so we can sell and escape them?  As you might have guessed, we’re not friendly. Our community shut down our Airbnb that we were running very successfully after six months.  According to the Home Owners Association, temporary leases have to be a minimum of a month-to-month basis.  Our Airbnb was lovely and we were consecutively Superhosts AND we earned enough from it to throw a chunk at the mountain of mortgage debt.  The effort to flip the basement […]

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Month Long Minimalist Game

Have you ever looked around your house and thought how did I get so much shit? And when am I gonna have time to go through it and get rid of junk? Have you heard of the Minimalists or the Minimalist Game? Check them out! In order to play the minimalist game, every day you find things to toss, sell, donate or giveaway. The idea is to downsize! The first day it’s one thing and the last day it’s 28. So for February we’ll be giving away 406 items! At the end of the month I’ll share pictures of what I got rid of and where the stuff went. Today is February 3rd, so it won’t take you long to catch up! Find six items and start there. Here’s how I started… One garbage bag with clothes for Goodwill that’s been sitting in the corner of my bedroom for a month Two old crusty pots and lids which were replaced with a new kitchen set on Black Friday Three intercom speakers from a very retro 1970s system. I tore them out and I now have three holes that will need drywall… one in my kitchen, one in my bedroom and one in my living room. It is still great progress though! I have been living with them for nine years – apparently in case they come back in style? WTF? I hope you’ll give the game a try with me. […]

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Separate But Equal

Mr. Cabbage and I are a duel income no kids (DINK) couple and we will NEVER EVER combine our finances. We have both been in marriages where we combined finances and the other person had different or no financial goals. I am now in a relationship where I am open about my finances and financial goals and it is wonderful […]

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